Tuesday, 16 June 2015

Be a good husband who can protect his wife.

RULES FOR GODLY MEN 1). Don't expose your wife's weaknesses to your family and friends. You are each other's keeper. (Eph 5v12) 2). Never use attitudes and moods to communicate to your wife, you never know how your wife will interpret them.(Prov 15v13) 3). Never compare your wife to other women, you've no idea what their life is all about. 4). Never forget that you married her, She is your wife not your maid. Therefore treat her like a Queen and u will reign as King in her life forever (Gen 2v24) 5). Never assign anyone to give attention to your wife, people may do everything else but your wife is your own responsibility.(Eph 5v33) 6). Never blame your wife in public. Rather protect her, encourage her and correct her in private.(Deut 3v28) 7). Never pretend to be sick/ tired/ not in the mood for the purpose of denying your wife sex (SS 7v12 8). Never compare your wife to your one time sex mate in bedroom.(SS 9). Never shout or challenge your wife in front of your children(Eph 4v31) 10). Don't forget to check the smartness of your wife before she checks out. She represents u everywhere she goes.(Prov 12v4) 11). Never allow your friends to be too close to your marriage.U may not be able to know their intentions. Set boundaries 12). Never be in a hurry in the bathroom and on the dressing table. Out there your wife is always surrounded by men who took their time on their looks.( 1 Sam 25v3) 13). Your parents or family or friends do not have the final say in your marriage. Don't waste your time looking up to them for a final word.(Luke 21v16) 14). Never base your love on situational cases. It will destroy your marriage. 15). Don't forget that wife's want attention and good listeners, never be too harsh on her but rather listen to her, she will worship u. (Gal 6v9) 16). Remember never to compare yourself to her. She is feminine. Marriage Is always a teamwork. (Gal 6v10) 17). Don't be too judgemental to your wife she is your helpmate and the weaker sex .(Eph 4v29) 18). A lazy husband is a careless husband. He doesn't even know that his body needs a bath. (Prov 24v27)(Prov 20v13) 19). Don't associate with men who have a wrong mental attitude about marriage.(Prov 22v14) 20). Your marriage is as valuable to you as the value that you give it. Recklessness is unacceptable.(Heb 13v4) 21). Fruit of the womb is a blessing from the Lord, love your children and teach them well.(Prov 22v6) 22). You are never too old to influence your home. Never reduce your care for your wife and family for any reason. (Prov 31v28) 23). A prayerful husband is a better equipped husband, pray always for your wife and family(1 Thess 5v17) God bless you richly as you make your marriage a model to others. Send it to all the men on your contacts. God bless you.

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